We’ve reached a pinnacle of communication where there are countless ways for us to interact with the world around us. Texts, tweets, messages, email, pop ups, alerts, and video chats all have us sharing information at an incredible rate, faster and more frequent than ever before. Which leads us to our greatest challenge. How to focus in a distracted world. Each of these methods of communication are creating a challenge for us to complete our work.
User experience has a concept of dark patterns. Dark patterns are any design features that are intended to manipulate, deceive, or trick you into taking an action you didn’t plan on.
It turns out that all those red dots warning you about new messages and alerts are psychologically created to annoy you into taking action. Think of your frustration when you’ve gone into your email or text messaging, marked everything as read, only to find a single phantom red dot left. This is a focus thief trying to steal your attention away from your real purpose, which is to get work done.
Luckily for you, there are ways for you gain control of your focus. But it will take a strong heart and a stronger mind because you have been willingly conditioned to respond to those red dots.
Take Control of Your Focus
Focus is not just selecting the right thing, but also saying no to the wrong ones.
Daniel Goleman, in his book Focus – The Hidden Driver of Excellence, got it right in that what you say no to is just as important as to what you focus on. It is a rule that I live by. The following are some of the ways in which I force myself to stay focused in a world of distractions.
These small changes will help you become more focused so that you can complete those three priority tasks every day. The last challenge will be dealing with your own brain. It is used to constantly switching from task to task to task. It is a habit. You will need to break the habit. Create your own “Things to do later” notepad so that you can write things down if a different, yet distracting, idea comes to you. Get it down on paper and get back to the task at hand.
A final word of advice. Don’t make all of these changes at once. Start understanding what is distracting you and then slowly pick away at removing them one by one. Add in the new focus steps. You’ll be surprised at how effective you are in a month’s time.